Hey doc, first let me congratulate you and encourage you. You have graduated college… that alone is to be commended. Far too many young men get caught up in all sorts of foolery on their way to where you are now. Congratulations! And although you believe your parents were unable to “set more of a foundation” for you I would beg to differ. I can tell a few things about you just from this post.
First… you chose to ask me your question. Which means you are at least open to what you must surely know is my Faith based perspective on everything. I would venture so far as to say that you must at least appreciate and respect my Biblical perspective. And to me sir… that’s the ONLY foundation that really matters. I bet your parents had something to do with that. And besides, what’s in a man’s pockets can’t compare on any level to what’s in his heart. And any woman that doesn’t know that, isn’t woman enough to call your wife anyway. Look at it this way, your situation is actually protecting you from the wolves and gold diggers.
So the fact that you don’t have any money right now is actually to your advantage. As hard as this may be to believe, you’d much rather find a woman now who can see you with spiritual eyes rather than financial ones. You obviously have aspirations and will one day handle this money issue… I pray that you have met and married your wife before then, because once you have money it is almost impossible to decipher a woman’s true intentions. And any woman who is worthy of your money is willing to live without it just to be with you. Let those women ready to ovulate on financial portfolios say what they will, you are blessed my friend.
So, my recommendation is that you first change your definition of “foundation.” I would say the foundation you really need to be working on is that of a man of God and a husband. Prepare your heart and prepare your life as much as you can for a woman who is woman enough to truly see you for who you are. She’s a different kind of woman so she’ll be looking for a much different kind of “foundation.” She’ll be looking to follow a man that is looking to follow God. That’s the foundation you’ll need.
The Bible tells us that if we seek the Kingdom of God and his righteousness first all that other stuff will be added to us… It’s true bruh. It worked for me… and I was fortunate enough to find my wife when I was broke just like you. All I had was a heart for God, a strong work ethic, and incredible potential… She could see that. And that’s enough for any woman worthy to be called your wife for the rest of your life. Hope that helps my friend.
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